"Bees nai dega, pandra dega!"
..declared my mom, disregarding the vegetable vendor's protest, even as I was grimacing... [for those who do not know Hindi, it means 'I'll pay 15 and not 20"]
"Mom, we are out for a walk and not vegetable shopping and most certainly not for exercising our bargaining skills..." I told her.
I and my 74 year old mom recently started going out for a short walk daily evening as the doctor has advised her to walk daily post recovering from an illness. However, probably like every other mother, she loves to buy her own vegetables and fruits and by habit, no matter what price is quoted by the vendor, she will bargain...sometimes I don't approve of this behavior and tell her to not bother about bargaining for small items, especially when I don't want her to exert too much, but this time when I was telling her her so, the vendor stopped me and told me to let her talk.... "We are used to this and we love it when she comes to buy from us" he said.. No matter how much she bargains they are always so cordial and understanding and often I notice they straightaway quote a discounted price (yet Mom will further ask them to cut it down 🙈)
A similar behavior is seen when I go to the market with my 6year old.. some vendors are merrily offering her cherry tomatoes or some fruit treat to relish... It is so common for everyone in society to treat senior citizens and kids with so much more love/respect and consideration than they would treat people of other age groups.
Somewhere this behavior is also visible at workplaces where you have senior citizens working around you. So often we all admire that elderly co-worker who may be in their 60s,70s or even 80s marveling at the kinds of experiences they may have had and always keen to listen to what they have to share... it's so easy to let your guards down and be accepting/receptive when you are in such company, be it in a personal space or professional space.
By the way, when was the last time you took you mom (or dad or both) for an evening stroll? Time to go for one the next time you meet her... erm...and make sure there is no one selling vegetables or fruits around when you do...🙆♂️